29 – Play, Experiment and Watch Your Dreams Unfold

Time For You · 4. Oktober 2024 · 18:32 Min.
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29 – Play, Experiment and Watch Your Dreams Unfold
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Lea teilt ihre Erfahrungen aus einer harmonischen Woche mit neun verschiedenen Menschen und wie das Verständnis der Three Principles zu liebevollen Beziehungen führt. Sie erzählt, wie sich ihre Wünsche verändert haben - vom Wunsch weniger zu leiden hin zu konkreten materiellen Zielen - und wie sie mit einem Rezitationstool arbeitet. Dabei ermutigt sie, allen Wünschen Raum zu geben und Widerstände als konditioniertes Denken zu erkennen.

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In this episode of „TIME FOR YOU“, Lea shares reflections on understanding the Three Principles and how it leads to harmonious relationships and personal growth. She discusses how shifting her mindset reduced suffering and brought new wishes to life. Lea encourages embracing any desires that arise, while navigating insecurities, and invites listeners to play with these ideas in their own journey. Tune in for insight and inspiration!

 

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Hi, I’m Lea Wernli.
 I’m a coach and mentor. I may not see well, but I’m a great listener. After a profound insight into our spiritual nature, I fell in love with life again. I guide my coaching clients with love (sometimes tough love and a few good swear words) toward their true nature. My favorite addictions are coffee and good stories. In the „Lighter Life Lounge,“ I share the playbook for an awesome life. For me, it’s about experiencing everything deeply.

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Hello, I’m Shailia Stephens.
 I’m an Advanced Transformative Coach and Business Mentor for ❤️-centered „soulpreneurs.“ Before turning 40, I was a busy online business lady hustling toward success and driven by inner pressure. Today, I’m moving free and easy … and creating from aliveness and at my own pace. In the „Lighter Life Lounge,“ I share the „3 Principles“ for an amazingly calm and effortlessly easy life and business.

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0:01Hi, and welcome to another episode of Time for You. I'm Leah Verntley, and I'm your host today. I'm all by myself. Normally, there is Shelia, or Leah and Shelia and the guest. So today, you're stuck with me. And I hope that whatever you do, that you take time for yourself. So what do I want to share with you? First, there is a little table setting. I'm a bit ill, as probably you can hear. And when you hear me sip, that's hot water with lemon and honey.

1:03So that's my favorite recipe when I feel a bit, um, kränklich. That's German for a bit sick. So, and if my voice is not that clear. Yeah, obviously, that's the same reason. So what do I want to share? I would love to share with you several things. First of all, we had a fabulous week. And I'm sure that Shelley and myself, we will tell you a bit more and talk about it when we get together again. It was Shelia's 50th birthday, and I don't share the secrets here, but what I want to say is that these things work, guys.

2:02This 3-principle understanding, or a deeper knowing of who— how humans work, or a a different level of being conscious about consciousness, it's very helpful. And it was so obvious because we were 9 people together for a week, and not all of us did know each other. So 9 different characters, 9 different opinions, 9 different personalities, 9 different needs or wants. And it was harmonious, it was deeply connected, it was love, it was shared adventures and memories.

3:05So just to To experience that was amazing. That was so, so beautiful. And of course, I mean, Sheliah is Sheliah, and Sheliah's friends are friends. But actually, we didn't know each other that well. There were people who knew each other and other people who were completely new to each other. So. If you look in that direction, I assure you, assure you, it, it does make life easier a lot, and in a variety of aspects of life. But what I've seen with all the clients I had over the couple— over the last couple of years is in the relationships.

4:10It's, it's just like another world. You wake up to love, you wake up to connection, you wake up to compassion. And That changes, that changes the relationship to your husband, friend, wife, girlfriend, kids, pets, your family of origin, origin, origin. Yeah. So, and it deepens, it deepens over the year. It's like this voice inside, or the feeling, or the navigation system just gets clearer and clearer and clearer. And sometimes we forget, of course, but it is as if there is a underlying, um, maybe even— I mean, that's totally everything that I'm talking about today is totally made up and not the truth, as you know.

5:35Um, but it's this, what would love do? And what would love do when there are 9 people in a bus? What would love do When there is low mood or grumpiness, what would love do? And to just be and contemplate and live from there, being in life from there, is such a cool thing. What a blessing. Yeah, so that was amazing. and we will share behind the scenes and fun stuff, of course, with you guys. The second thing I wanted to share is, um, something around wishes and visions and needs, and I want that.

6:38For a very long time before I came to the understanding, I really, really, really wanted to suffer less. So that was, that was the innate vision, the, the really the need, the wish inside of me to suffer less. So, um, That was, that was big. And that was a main thing. So I didn't have the capacity maybe, or I don't know, I didn't have other big wishes. And I have to admit that I already had a lot of things in my life. like a beautiful relationship and kids and, and even a career, career and, and a home and a cat and family and friends.

7:41So I, I was already blessed and I was suffering. So the biggest wish was to suffer less. And that wish actually Came true. That wish came true. I suffered less. And nowadays, oh, I mean, that's a bit big to say, but I always almost do not suffer. Yeah. So Um, when I was in life with less suffering, life unfolds, life unfolded, life smells, looks different. I see the beauty everywhere. I see the coincidences. I see beautiful people everywhere. So to wake up to that was bliss, was bliss, is bliss.

9:10So if you imagine like a horizontal and a vertical line, I think Steve Chandler is referring to that, or maybe it's even I think it's USM. They, they talk about the soul line and the goal or lifeline. And even George Pransky talked about it, Steve Chandler, a lot of people. So I was really interested in the, in the soul line for the last couple of years. I was just talking about the soul line, about consciousness, thought, and, and mind and that's all, all I wanted, to evolve there and be there and, and talk about that.

10:05And now, for a couple of months, I felt like, hmm, there are things in form I would love to have. I, I love freedom. I love freedom to choose. I love, I love choosing. I love having and experiencing, experiencing different things. So suddenly, wishes or needs, even needs, even that, if that's ego, I don't care. Needs, wishes, whatever came up was like, juicy. That's interesting. What's that? And I started to, to just open up to this wishes to this.

10:55That's what I want in my life right now, in form. And I, I had very, very interesting things going on when, when I wasn't that interested in, I'd like to have a toodle-oo. And I manifested in a way very quickly. like the last couple of years, I could think of things and they just showed up. And one was a particularly funny one I shared with Shelia. And it was like, I don't drink Coke that much, but I really, really wanted to have a Coke Zero, but only a cold one.

11:40And I was with my mother on the way to a to a show and we were literally in the middle of nowhere. And I just said, I'm thirsty. And normally she has lukewarm water. And she did open up her backpack and there was a Coke Zero, a cold one in it, stuff like that. Or my car, it broke down. And I thought, I want the same one in black, a little bigger, but secondhand. And not that, uh, and cheaper than the first one. And actually, no joke, the next day I drove home from a village somewhere in Switzerland with exactly that car.

12:28So that was very interesting. And I thought, hmm, oh, something I'm, I'm doing, seeing, being in the world Right, right. Entre parenthèses, how do you say that? Like I make with my hands this little signs. Not right, right, but I do something that somehow works. What what what is that? Can I teach that to my clients? And so I'm I'm again on a on a quest and and it's very interesting. There are a lot of things that I start to see and explore and. stuff happens.

13:13And I created a tool of recitation. You say that? Yeah. It was inspired by Steve Hardison's document. I'm very curious when things like that happened, like Dr. Bill Petit did it and a lot of people. And so I worked with Ankush for a little while and We looked a bit in the direction, but then I started researching and I found out that actually it came from Dr. Gui. That's a guy, a hypnotherapist, a doctor that worked with these healing sentences. I'm getting better every day and every day.

14:00And he realized that that's very helpful. And I saw that Bob Proctor actually worked with things like that. And of course, all the spiritual religious leaders and gurus and politicians are using a tool of recitation, like speaking their truths, their things into the world. So I, I I created something similar. And there was a couple months that the German coach is coming from non-duality. Oh, sorry. Um, bless myself, Leah. Um, she, she, with her, I, I learned tweaks and things as well.

14:53So now I, I, I have one and I teach it and we do it in my groups and it's very funny and things are showing up. and, and, and coming into form very quickly. And of course, there is a being state in it. Who am I? And what do I see? And, and it's always this fun little— how do you say that— dance between, hmm, I work, and I evolve as a being, as Leah. And of course, I'm not Leah. I'm I'm consciousness having a human experience, but I'm also here to experience all these things.

15:41So even the money part works very interesting. So what did I want to say? I wanted to say for the end that there, every, every wish, everything that it wants to come through you is okay. Even when it's superficial for someone else, if it's a Louis Vuitton bag or building a house or having a wildflower garden or whatever sparks your soul is right and okay, and you can go for it. And the principles, the consciousness, the knowing is super helpful. Why?

16:40Because if you go for your goals, then there will be resistance because we're conditioned, conditioned. Conditioned people know we are conditioned in a way. We think in certain ways and think that certain ways and things are true. So we will bump up against conditioned thinking and resistance and insecure thinking. And it's often around health, around self-esteem, or around money. So these 3 things will often show up and seemingly get into your way.

17:25But it doesn't have to, because we guys, we know it's thinking, thinking and feeling. And the trick is to feel it, to acknowledge it, to be just simply be with whatever resistance comes up and do the next step, the next thing that reveals itself. Anyway, so have fun, try, experiment. Don't believe me a thing. Look and feel and go for yourself and just play and have fun. I already said that. So, um, if that was helpful, please share with your friends and family and Yeah, I will have Shelly with me again very soon. So we are looking forward to be with you at Time for You. Bye.

Häufige Fragen zu dieser Folge

Wie hilft das Verständnis der Three Principles in Beziehungen?

Das Verständnis der Three Principles führt zu mehr Liebe, Verbundenheit und Mitgefühl in allen Beziehungen. Es verändert die Art, wie wir mit Partnern, Kindern, Familie und Freunden umgehen, weil wir aus der Frage 'Was würde Liebe tun?' heraus handeln. Diese Ausrichtung vertieft sich mit der Zeit und macht Beziehungen harmonischer, selbst wenn verschiedene Persönlichkeiten und Bedürfnisse aufeinandertreffen.

Wie gehe ich mit Widerständen um, wenn ich meine Ziele verfolge?

Widerstände entstehen durch konditioniertes Denken, besonders in Bereichen wie Gesundheit, Selbstwert und Geld. Der Schlüssel ist, diese Widerstände zu fühlen und anzuerkennen, statt gegen sie anzukämpfen. Wenn du verstehst, dass es nur Denken und Fühlen ist, kannst du einfach mit dem Widerstand sein und trotzdem den nächsten Schritt machen, der sich zeigt.

Sind materielle Wünsche okay, wenn man sich mit den Three Principles beschäftigt?

Ja, absolut. Jeder Wunsch, der durch dich kommen möchte, ist richtig und okay - egal ob es eine Designer-Tasche, ein Haus oder ein Wildblumengarten ist. Wenn etwas deine Seele zum Funkeln bringt, darfst du dem nachgehen. Das Verständnis der Principles hilft dabei, die Widerstände zu navigieren, die beim Verfolgen dieser Ziele auftauchen können.

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